Umbuzo bonke abazali okuzodingeka bawuphendule ngesikhathi esithile, kodwa umcabango wokuthi kufanele uchaze ukuthi izingane zenziwa kanjani enganeni yakho encane ungase ukwenze uzizwe ukhathazekile noma ungakhululekile. Umbhali nengcweti yokuziphatha kwezingane u-Tanith Carey unikeza izeluleko zakhe zochwepheshe.
Lapho sezineminyaka engaba ngu-6 noma engu-7 ubudala, izingane ziqala ukuzwa kubangani bazo ngokuthi abantu abadala bazenza kanjani izingane, nokuthi izingane zivelaphi. Kulungele ukuchaza ucansi ngendlela ebucayi, ehambisana neminyaka, ukuze ingane yakho ingadideki noma ikhathazeke.
Kwenzekani ekhanda lengane yakho?
Kule minyaka, izingane manje zifuna ukwazi ngendawo yazo emhlabeni nokuthi zivelaphi. Uma bengawatholi amaqiniso, bangase basebenzise “ukucabanga komlingo”, okusho ukuthi bakha indaba ukuchaza lokho abangakakuqondi. Ngokwesibonelo, bangase bacabange ukuthi lapho othile efuna umntwana okumelwe akwenze nje ukuya esibhedlela ayoyicela.
Ungase uzizwe wethukile ngoba ufuna ukuthola amagama kahle okokuqala futhi awufuni ukwethusa ingane yakho. Ungase futhi ungakhululeki ngokuveza uhlangothi olusondelene nawe enganeni yakho futhi uzizwe unamahloni lapho izocacisa ukuthi yile ndlela owayikhulelwa ngayo.
Ingane yakho manje isiwazi kangcono umehluko phakathi kwabafana namantombazane. Lokho akuzwile kungase kuzwakale kuyinqaba kodwa ungamsiza ngokunikeza incazelo engakha umqondo wayo.
Ungaphendula kanjani:
- Buza ingane yakho ukuthi ikwazi kangakanani. Mbuze ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi izingane ziphumaphi. Uma usuqonda izinga lakhe lolwazi uzokwazi ukuphendula ngamagama afanele futhi ulungise noma yikuphi ukungaqondi kahle.
- Nikeza okuyisisekelo. Sebenzisa ulimi oluqondile okhululekile ngalo. Ngokwesibonelo, yithi: “Uhlobo oluthile lwembewu, olubizwa ngokuthi isidoda, luphuma epipini likababa futhi lubhukude lukhuphukele esithweni sangasese sikamama ukuze luthole iqanda lakhe. Lapho behlangana, ingane ingaqala ukukhula.”
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi…
- Qhubeka ukhuluma. Njengoba ingane yakho ikhula, vumela isihloko sivele ngokwemvelo futhi ukuze ukwazi ukwengeza umongo owengeziwe, njengokuthi ucansi luyinto enhle kanjani kubantu abadala abathandanayo. Yisho ukuthi uyaqonda uma kuzwakala kuyindida, kodwa qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho izoba nengqondo njengoba ikhula.
- Sebenzisa ezinye izinsiza. Uma ukuthola kunzima ukuthola amagama, sebenzisa izincwadi ezibhalwe ngokukhethekile ngochwepheshe ukufundisa izingane ngocansi ukuze ziqondise izingxoxo nezingxoxo nengane yakho.
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